[Jenny L]

Hi Heidy

thank you very much for your words. Deep down I already knew the answer. In the moment that I wrote my situation. I realized that I was betraying myself and the values ​​I had. I believe in myself and I know that I have a lot to offer in a relationship and in the past they have taken advantage of my tendency to want to solve all the problems, and after they get what they need, may be emotional, some advice, be a cheerleader or support, they decide that I am best friend and not material to fall in love with and that has undermined my self-esteem, in the sense that I question if I am who have a problem or even if one day I will meet someone who loves me and values ​​me. I think I am a reasonable person, I am affectionate, I like to help people. I believe in myself and at a professional level I am successful and this is because I have a very high work ethic. I mostly work with men and being a boss in my area of work requires being strong and not being intimidated by them. I support my family and many people depend on me. so when this person showed interest in me I felt I had found someone I could share with. I don’t know if you’ve seen the Disney movie Encanto? I felt very related to the older sister who carries the load and they keep throwing things at her to see how much she can take. I don’t know if one day I’ll find someone who loves me just the way I am, but thank you very much for helping me clarify what I already knew, which is that this person is not good for me.

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