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Thank you for this! I will def read it
I have looked into love languages and attachment styles.Attachment – Im an anxious and hes a fearful avoidant. One relationship coach thinks hes a covert narcissist?
Love Language – Im quality time and hes acts of serviceI might have messed up tho. I sent him this.
Just reaching out to say thank you for the shoulder to cry on the other night and headlights today. I wanted to let you know i kinda had a revelation moment since then after doing some semi-deep soul searching.
I didn’t really want the breakup so it took some time for me to process everything. But i think I’ve got my bearings again. I realize now it’s possible that you were right. It could be that we aren’t a good fit long term because the truth is I don’t want to be with anyone who isn’t certain they want to be with me. Took a while for me to remember that for some reason. But im good now 🙂
Still wish you really good things in life and with whoever is the right girl!His reply – I appreciate all the time we spent together and the growth that we have both been through. Thank you for being there for me through it all
did i mess up completely?
My Anxiety def got a away with me.. I am in therapy, my anxious and needy self comes from childhood abandonment issues and Im working hard to rectify it. I really miss him and all. I was doing the 30 day limited no contact which is why i was frustrated having to start over. He has trauma from his past and he tends to love being alone / major introvert. so me being needy def cramped him and he pulled away. I was working hard, posting on instagram, going out with friends on my days off, being me and working on my independence until he brought his dog in and i lost it. but thank you, i know i need to be kinder to myself and Im doing my best to work on that. ive been reading a lot of relationship books and figuring out whats going on with me / how i can change. Im also trying new things and figuring out what I do and don’t like.
