[Cherisse R]

I think I’m just worried that I would not feel attracted to guys around my age. I am in a few FB singles and Meetup groups. I even met a 58-year-old man from meetup, but he looked like he could be my grandpa. I was not attracted to him. If there’s no chemistry, then I can’t see someone. I don’t even care if he’s handsome, but the old looking would be a problem for me. I’m not sure how to reconcile that. I used to like physically fit people because I am very fit, but I have already let that one go because the guy I was seeing for 3 months was not fit, so I know I can be attracted to someone who is not fit. From looking at different pics in the groups I’m in, I felt that there was nobody I would feel attracted to. So I’ve been struggling with this dilemma for a while. This is why I thought I would check out online dating for a month and if I didn’t find anyone I liked, I would just forget about it. After that, I would just leave it to the Universe. If it’s meant to be, then I would meet someone by accident kind of thing. Is this still a limiting belief or is it realistic?

[Cherisse R]

Thank you, Heidi. Good points. Lots to think about. I think it’s a confusing time for me right now. I’ll try to figure it all out for sure.

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