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Thank you, I’ve been thinking about that a lot lately and it’s been hard because I love him and want to be with him but I feel like if he can’t stick with me while I work on myself then he doesn’t deserve to be with me when I’m at my best. It’s a hard truth to accept but a truth nonetheless. Thank you for your help and I feel more content with my situation! While it may be hard to just let go it’s truly for the best for both myself and him, maybe we will meet again maybe we will go on to live different lives but as long as I stay true to myself I feel I will find happiness in life!
Hey! Thank you, I am a little confused about his intentions as well. He does tell me he still loves me and wants a future with me but that my past traumas has caused issues in our relationship and he has lost his patience in dealing with them. I feel I lack most in the communication aspect of our relationship and I truly want to work on that and myself because I know I can live a happier life as well as lead a happier relationship. I guess it’s a little hard for me to wrap my head around it because he wants me to grow and work on myself but he expressed that he doesn’t want to be with me while I work on myself, which makes me wonder if we would work together in the future when he chooses to leave when it gets hard? I feel that’s it’s best for me to move out and work on myself in a different environment that can support the healing work I want to do, I’m just worried that when I’m putting in the work to heal myself and issues that he will just see me for all the problems my past has caused and not want to be with me anymore. Sorry for the confusion! Thank you!
