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Yeah, I just need to find healing first. I’m afraid I messed up the start of something good with this guy. I’m aware I am unhealthy/unhealed in some way. You’re right, my actions are very contradictory. I just feel major guilt for how sad and how I personally was with him. I think I will give it time and put attention to myself to heal. Thanks.
Hello, I will try my best to answer your questions.
1. What were you so depressed about when you met up with him?
A: there’s probably many reasons for my saddness, one not being able to heal from a past love from 7 years ago so I am unhealed. I struggle to find healing, which I’ll be getting a therapist next week.
2. How did you guys end up connecting in the first place?
A: We connected through Facebook Messenger, I am assuming he liked my pirate costume as he’s very into pirates. 😁
3. Is it a religious belief of yours to wait until marriage?
A: It is not a religious belief of mine to wait til marriage. I was born and raised the same religion as his growing up, but I’m afraid I may not have any desire to go back to that religion, but if him and I were together in a relationship, he could change my mind about the religion as its a deep down desire of mine to marry someone in a temple of the same religion of mine (its confusing I know, but eventho I feel different about religion I would like to try to work it out with him as I feel it’s something we can grow together).
4. Are you guys still talking? How often? I imagine it’s just texting at this point.
A: He last texted me 4 to 5 days ago, he’s not reading my messages, he’s blowing cold, but I feel there’s hope because if he truely was not interested in me he would have unfriended me and blocked all contact?
5. Why do you believe your heart chakra has been disconnected for a few years? I want to say that I have never heard of that before, so maybe I don’t understand what you are saying. Chakras can be messy, spinning in the opposite direction, running sluggishly, and gunked up, but I’ve never heard of one being disconnected. I’m guessing someone told you that? What does that mean to you?
A: You’re right , the heartchakra isn’t disconnected, but can be gunked up, going opposite directions etc, I guess I say that because I honestly went through alot of spiritual things, seeing visions etc, from rising, there will always be fall, only to rise higher and fall to climb the painful climb, its just how I feel life is.
6. I’m also wondering why you really like this guy. You barely know him. So what makes you want to try and resolve things with him?
A: I’m attracted to him as we are very similar, he says he emotionally unavailable. I guess I’m attracted to emotionally unavailables. He’s gentle, kind, caring, great listener (when we met), strong, silent type of a man, he’s very attractive. I want to help him, but I don’t know what I should do, if he not interested in me why didn’t he not say that? I feel he could be a really good life partner. I’m not sure what I want quite yet.
7. You spent a few days together, yes? What did you guys do together?
We watched movies, shared songs, video games, hiking, talked to eachother, kissing etc.
I hope this clarify things for you. I would really appreciate any help I can get.
To be fair, I’ve only known him in those two days, so I don’t know yet if there is romance, but would like to be friends first. How do I go about him opening up?
