[Mary K]

Hi Coach Spyce!

We met through a dating app. He visited me twice a year for 3 weeks to a month each time.

Now that I think about it, all those times that we were together, it was indeed like a cation for both of us. I didn’t think this would be bad though as it seemed like we were on the same page.

When we finally got together, living under the same roof during the pandemic, it was tough because we were together 24/7 (he works from home). He was always in front of his pc, either working or playing games. While I was stuck there trying to figure out what to do since I was in a foreign country and my husband didn’t seem to care. Well, to be fair, we didn’t have much options to do anything outside the house because of the restrictions.

Anyway, we were living with his mom and his dad visits once a week (they are divorced) and they kept pushing for him to get our own place. I think that added to the pressure for him. He got mad at them for pushing. Although I tried to tell him that they just wanted us to start our lives on our own. That’s why I didn’t want to push anything on him.

After he asked if the separation, I felt like he suddenly have the freedom that he wanted. He quit his job and started studying again, and he still lives with his mom.

I don’t know what else to do. Is there hope for us at all?

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