[Victoria O]

He lost feelings for his wife because he said it turned into more of being her parent and supporting her rather than a team. He loved that when he came home to me, dinner was ready, house was cleaned and laundry done. He said I am his breath of fresh air. He said it was like being in a relationship with an actual adult. Another reason is because of her occupation. He was on board at first, but then it got out of hand. She made millions off her onlyfans account. So even we they had sex, there were no feelings because it turned into work. So he has so much passion when we sleep together. He did not begin the divorce because of how everything was written in the company’s legal papers. She was a part owner for tax purposes. So he did not want to loose his business by starting a divorce. So he told me to give him some time for him to figure that out before he announced that he wanted a divorce. That was before she found out about us. But now, I can’t even tell if he even misses me at all. I know he has some red flags but so do I. I am willing to look past those and make this work. We haven’t talked for almost a week now. He has not taken me off his phone bill yet, which he was suppose to do days ago when I asked him to. (That was the only communication) He finally opened up to me the other week and said he did not know what he wanted. So is my ignoring him, even bothering him at all? He has not reached out again, he unfriended me off facebook. He is not seeing anyone else. I want to stick to the no contact rule but I don’t even know if he is fazed by it or not.

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