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Thank you so so so much. I never really looked at it that way until you literally spelled it out. I guess I’ve always been afraid that if he finds someone else, what if she becomes the one? I’d be so crushed. Anyway. We went out to enjoy each other’s company and a mutual friend decided to tag along which put a damper in the plans. But I just went along with it. We’re at a phase now where he keeps asking me “what is wrong?” As if I always seem to be miserable but that is genuinely not my goal. I wanted him to have time to interact with our third party and not take all of the attention. It’s a learning process for sure. But I’m willing to take the steps needed. Thanks !
Hi thank you. I am currently 27 but we are moving into our next year’s within the upcoming months. So we will both be 28 and 26 respectively. It’s not just me. It’s every girl. He has had this problem with all of his relationships.. He and his friends do admit that once he is out of the house everything will change and we can definitely be happy. I just don’t know what to do until that happens in the meantime. Hes very set and wanting to have a specific time line for his life and have things happen in the way that he feels they need to go . We have been so in love over the past 5 months, so it’s hard to just throw that away . This man chased me for 5 years lol. I have struggled with giving him confidence when I don’t necessarily agree with what he is doing. This program has definitely helped me a lot. I am looking to move out myself, and hoping that once one of us has our own places it will be better to see the bigger picture. meantime I don’t know how to pull him back in to see that I am got enough to be a long term partner. I wish I could share all of the lovely things that he has said to my family and friends..with knowing how scared he is to upset his mom… At this point, I don’t know that I could remain friends with him if he were to move on into a different relationship. His friends tell me: that if I would leave he would definitely start dating around just to try to find happiness because he loves the idea of being wanted. He loves being appreciated. He loves being complimented and that he does love me but is scared. But so far what I have done isn’t enough. I would love to be included and the things that he loves regardless of the fact that I am not a huge fan of them but I don’t know how to relay that without sounding pushy
