[Rhonda M]

I did it. It was hard. But I did what was healthy for me. I approached it from the distance perspective and he was great about it.

[Rhonda M]

That does make sense. Thanks so much!!

Now I need to set a SMART goal of doing this

I will call B tonight and tell him.

[Rhonda M]

I have a really hard time saying things that cause people discomfort.

I’m sure he will be fine.

If he drank less or not at all, I don’t know what else would change. He’s very kind already. Just anesthetized to life I think.

The How to do it and what to say are hurdles.

I liked your suggestions there. Just starting the conversation and when to do it. We live 5 hours apart so do I have us meet one last time or do it over the phone? I really hate not to say it in person.

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