[Yi X]

Hi Heidi,

Thank you for your insights they are extremely on point I almost cried reading it lol.

Yes, he has been cheated before by his college long-term girlfriend. From what he described he simply told her it wouldn’t work and walked away. I am not sure how much of a burden he carries from it. He told me he is not someone who would get jealous because he sees no point in it. It could also be him disguising his emotions.

A most recent development, he called me an hour ago, didn’t apologize for not responding my text or not called me yesterday, we talked about how we feel about the STD situation, he says he doesn’t blame me but is just frustrated because he needs to go to the doctor (he is staying in his parent’s house now), and take antibiotics and there is a chance that it is not cleared completely, which I get. I got tested this morning and the results will be back in a week. I told him again I haven’t been with anyone else since I’ve been with him because I literally don’t want nobody else and he says it’s the same for him. So I guess we are good now.

I am a little bothered that everytime he has sometime he just go disappeared and not even responding my text, leaving my emotions in the air, does this mean he is not a very caring person? should this be a red flag?

Also I really want to help him feel better with the whole situation, regardless if I am infected or not, or if it was me who passed it to him or not. Any suggestions?

Best,
Yi

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