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I am going with “not interested” at this point. He cancelled attending the weekend activity, so I am just going to go ahead and attend and have fun without him.
thanks for your feedback!
Nina
I tried the “damsel in distress” thing and asked him for some help. He said he would try. Then he did not come through with the help. And, he didn’t even tell me when he found out that he wouldn’t be able to assist. So, I have to conclude at this point that he is just not that interested. Would you agree? Or am I reading this wrong?
He is definitely single.
He hovers around at our activities, but then never calls or texts or anything on days we don’t have activities. A lot of people assumed we were an item on the first few nights of activities, and he really hasn’t changed much in how he acts towards me on those nights. I just wonder if he is interested or not. There is a weekend group activity this weekend, so we shall see how that goes. 🙂
What stops me from asking for help is feeling like I am being too pushy or an imposition. Plus, most of the time, I don’t really NEED the help. So it seems fake. I usually don’t like taking help from people because I am super picky and want things done a certain way. So, all that adds up to a lot of stress for me to even ask. 🙂
Yes, that makes sense. That is usually what I do….GUESS at what I think the other person is thinking. It’s usually a big mistake, too. Yes, we flirt, but nothing further than that at this point. I will just wait and see what happens. I am trying to use some of the techniques in the online materials. The specifics of the text messages would be helpful, though. 🙂 I am pretty independent, so the whole hero thing is very difficult for me. I am not used to it. Thanks for your help!
