[Donna S]

Thank you Spryce! I actually bit the bullet and texted him Sunday night. He had a really busy weekend and told me all about it. We had good text chats Sunday and Monday night and I’m feeling a little better. Not hearing from someone for a few days sends my anxious side raging and I start trying to figure out what I did wrong. That is definitely rooted in my past. I need to remind myself to relax and also remind myself that it is very new and that I need to be patient. We did get on the phone last night and when he was talking about wanting to see me I said we need to find a way to make that happen and he agreed. But I was careful not to press. I don’t want to be that girl.

I love your suggestions and will definitely incorporate that going forward. He does seem to be emotionally available. I have a bad tract record of emotionally unavailable and narcissistic. So the fact that he doesn’t appear to be either AND I was attracted to him is mind blowing to me.

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