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It became long texts back and forth, which I didnt want. I fought myself everyday to leave him alone. I went from texting and calling everyday to slowly, I would only call or text once a day. Sunday made 2 weeks since everything happened. It also was the first day I went all day with no contact at all. I’m on day 2.
Hello, so I called him to try and talk. He said he was busy and would call back. Instead of calling back, he text. I told him i just wanted to hear his voice and talk to him. He wanted know what about, I told him nothing in particular but eventually I do need to talk to him about some things. I told him I needed his help in making some decisions. He has been saying he would let me know when we could talk and hadn’t said anything so i told him I was waiting on him. I could tell he was starting to get a little anxious and curious. I told him I didn’t want to text about it, we can talk whenever we see each other in person. He said he needed to know what it was about before we talk. I told him I need answers at this point so I know what I need to do. He kept asking in regards to what. By this time, I was losing my patience, so I told him I felt like he was trying to be funny. He said he really wasn’t. I then found myself texting about my issue like I already said I didn’t want to. I told him we needed to talk about or relationship. I told him we should be able to compromise when it comes to arguments and disagreements. I told him the way certain way things are handled can harm our relationship. For instance the way he gets mad and just shuts down, it might work for him but it doesn’t work for me. I told him we both have faults and that’s ok. Nobody is perfect. I told him I just want to talk about it please so I know what I need to do and put my heart at ease. He told me to do whatever I want, he had nothing to talk about, he said he told me he needs, time, break, and space.
Hello, so just giving an update. I have pulled back and left him alone. I’m not calling and crying to him anymore. I’m not begging him to talk to me. It’s been a week and 4 days. He did reach out yesterday on his own, he even came to my job. I feel like he just wanted a reason to see me. I just don’t have time for the games and the back and forth. We have talked about issues before, so it was a shock that he even acted like this. I did, however, reach out today. I don’t wanna waste my time and I just want him to know it’s not fair to me what he is doing. I told him we need to talk in person about what we are doing. Either we are together and trying to fix things and move forward or we aren’t, plain and simple.
