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He said it was an “on and off” type of relationship. His BFF said it was already iffy from the beginning. I’d say less than a year. I don’t know if he loved her. Knowing his story though, he’s unfortunately has gone through worse and so I think this last relationship kind of reminded him of that. I’m not really sure. He only shares bits and pieces about it.
Yeah, I also like being good friends and just see what happens from there. He still “owes me dinner” so hopefully he follows through. I was in a long relationship, we unfortunately had to end it because our life goals were no longer in sync. When I tried the dating app, that’s when he reached out. I was talking to multiple guys but I just couldn’t get myself to trust and meet them during this pandemic. I got frustrated and turned it off. Unfortunately, I work from home so not much interaction with the outside world, but I honestly am okay with that. I’m focusing on myself and my family right now and the little projects that I’ve put on hold.
Yeah, I’m also leaning towards he is not ready for anything. I was happy those first hangouts did not happen because I know he wasn’t ready. When we text, it’s more friendly and flirting. We have talked about various topics regarding relationship, life, and whatever worries we have. His BFF is a very good friend of mine, she and I went to school together. We all hung out last Tuesday and it was good. We sat together and interacted a lot. We’re very comfortable with each other and his BFF knows everything about us. I am hoping that if we ever really try again, whenever or if ever that will happen, I do want to make sure that I do my part and I believe that’s one of the reasons I found myself here. We have a lot in common and he’s a very nice person. If you guys can help me keep it in the right direction I’d appreciate it so very much. I’ve read almost all the booklets and have applied what I’ve learned with good results. Thank you.
I’m more of shy to share all the information. But we weren’t in a relationship. We’ve been friends since high school. We talked and got together a couple of times when we met up again. Unfortunately we both had personal relationship issues that needed to be fixed first, misunderstandings ensued, that’s how we fell out. We actually straightened things out and stayed friends. He just got out of a relationship when we tried to hang out, he was not ready for anything new. I am glad those hang-outs did not happen. So yes, I am keeping my distance and still have my shield up.
Thanks for the response. He’s starting his own business but yes I do keep it in mind about the cancellations. I keep my distance and don’t expect much. We text constantly. I do have my shield up just in case. Thank you for your insight.
Well we had a history, fell out due to personal issues. We didn’t talk for a while, I opened a dating app and he reached out there. I even clarified with him about why he reached out on a dating app since he has my number. We started talking again and planned to hang out which he has canceled a couple of times. The last one he canceled, he said he “owes me dinner”. He has a very busy work schedule and I understand that his work is one of his priorities right now. So, I try not to make a big deal out of it and just brush it off. I’m thinking it’s too early to tell, I’ll just wait to see things more clearly. I don’t want to get ahead of myself. Maybe when I know more later on and I will post more on here. Thank you.
