[Heidi A]

Hi Heidi 😊- you do not hear our name very often!!

Thank you so much for your questions:

I will answer your questions to the best of my ability:

*We have been actually dating/ boyfriend girlfriend for 5 months – talked, texted and went out in 3 dates during the 6 weeks prior to those 5 months so we have known each 6 and 1/2 months +

*He and his ex have what I would consider a good divorce…. they have 3 children and 3 grandchildren.

He didn’t tell her about us because he didn’t want her to feel bad …. the text she sent him was like” I don’t know if I will ever date again, etc.,and he told me he would not ever get back together with her , but that she is a good person and he does not want to hurt her if he can help it! Then he says babe ” if we were out to dinner and she walked in I would not hide or run away ,.. I would introduce you to her but I just don’t see a need to hurt her” by telling her right now!! Please know that I would of never known about that text … I think he is a good, fair and kind man.
* her name nay vine up like ” her name” is grubs to watch the grand kids …or a out her be puppy that looks like a puppy we just saw and honestly it happens pribsbky every 4th ir 5 the conversations ..

* I feel insecure I think because I know that even though he is divorced and they lived pretty separate lives 2 years prior to the divorce – I still worry that he has real feelings for her and then I feel bad for thinking like that! He treats me awesome – but has not said that he is in love with me yet….he says sweet things like how lucky he us to be with me – that he is proud of me ( re: my job) he says that he cant believe how great I treat him, etc… that he loves my smile and upbeat personality, that I am a great woman, mom and lover all without me prompting or fishing for compliments!
I normally do not get into my head but this relationship is different than my others!

I really like him a lot – I love him , but I want him to be the one to say it first!!

Thank you for any advice or insight that you may hZve

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