I think one mistake I’ve made that I’m not sure how to fix is that I was his confidant during a difficult time. I looked for solutions to problems and tried to lift his spirits during tough times. Text doesn’t give us much room to ‘listen’ though and I have not pressed him with questions. Only have tried to help sort problems he was facing. Now, opening the discussion back up is difficult. I thought meeting would make this easier but now we’ve postponed. I don’t want a missed opportunity to see how we actually are together.