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Soo we kinda broke up on Sunday but we still have been around each other this week. I realized how I was being and I really want to fix things… he’s been back and forth since we met back in October and since then we fell in love at the end of December and then this recently happened and he says there’s no spark and he doesn’t want to feel needed he wants to feel wanted… and I want to give him all of that because he is beyond amazing but the poor guy is constantly telling me I deserve so much better then him and how awesome I am… but also his drunk uncle doesn’t help the situation…who is also his business partner… The thing is I didn’t realize I was acting out of fear of losing him and I would much rather have him afraid of losing me because I want him to see me as the one for him soo badly… I don’t know how to do these text phrases or use my words but I’m trying and I think it may be helping a little bit because he’s been texting more then he has since I literally bawled my eyes out in front of him lol… ugh… please help!!!!!! I want us to work he’s the one I want and I never once thought I was being clingy or needy til I googled it and was like omg!!! That’s not me at all!!!
He had hurt his back really bad yesterday and I had helped him through it but he didn’t seem as appreciative like he use to be but he’s also extremely stressed out… he still kissed me goodbye this morning even though I went in for a hug to tell him to have a good day… I just want to know the right words to say to have him coming back to me like he use to be…Thank you in advance
SamanthaHow do I go about this I’m confused because we still are “friends” but I’m getting mixed signals because he seems to still want me around… I honestly think he’s just scared and trying to find reasons to break up… ummm but he did mention I was being to clingy and that’s act like I need him… when he just wants to be wanted not needed if that makes sense and I want to win him back to get these sparks flaring again…reality I don’t need him I want him but I did look up things and I was being clingy and I am now working on it
