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I like his intelligence and perseverance because he has mastered different languages. He knows hus mother tongue and English. Then he learned Spanish to an advanced level when he worked there. He also knows Hebrew because he once worked in Israel. Now he is learning Portuguese. One cannot master so many languages if he is dumb. Also I like his independence and maturity because he has been away from his home country for more than a decade.
I will try your suggested ways and tell you how it is going.
Actually I have some other options going on. Can I discuss it here as well or should I open another new topic for it?
Hi Spyce,
He has been here for 3 or 4 years already. He hasn’t become a permanent resident yet. From our conversation, He will stay as long as he could unless the tax structure changes which makes it unattractive.
I am interested in having him as a boyfriend but out of 100,it may be around 70 something in terms of how I want him. I just don’t want my investment on him down the drain. That’s why I didn’t take any actions or invest in him a lot so far.
Hi Spyce,
Thank you for your reply. 🙂
Well I want the end goal to my steady boyfriend. For the idea of having sex, I just feel it is for fun and enjoyment. I don’t expect having sex will bring a man closer! I can still date around if he is not committed.
Within these days, another fact maybe you would like to know. I deliberately walked off the conversation on whatsapp for 2 days on Thursday. He didn’t text me at all. Then I just initiated the conversation on Saturday by saying that I had been busy on the stuff on my new place (which he knows and it is true). Then he replied in a diplomatic way saying that “Don’t worry (with a smiley emoji). Then he asked me how was the weekend. Then I replied that it was good with drinking out due to the lift of social distancing restrictions. Then I asked him back “what about you” so the game keeps going. He said things were almost the same for him, work plus exercising in gym. Then he talked about a series which he was watching recently (sometimes we discuss series which we watched in common).
The signals look mixed because there is a lack of interest if he is not actively texting you. However whenever he hangs out, he was the one who always paid the bill. Who will want to drop USD 50 each time if the objective is not achieved?
I am happy to provide you more information if you want so that we can have a better analysis on the situation.
