[Sandy G]

Thank you for responding, and yes I have already stopped and your right he definitely walked away. I can’t believe this happened to me the second time,I don’t want to find anyone else I think it’ll be best I stay to myself as it’s the right thing to do, I’ve cryed myself asleep numerous of night ‘s wondering why he did this to me after he said all he said, I’ve basically had suicidal thoughts because really there aren’t any out there who wants me. I’m a grandmother of 6 grandchildren and a mother of 3 I’m going to just I guess live what time God gives me here for them, so much has happened in my life even some to embarrassing to talk about as a child, I was beaten molested tortured I’m so full of depression stress anxiety, I’m basically tired of being let down and hurt

[Sandy G]

I’m sorry, as I was trying to say was that the guy u I met off line he’s gone, I mean he has proposed to me and at the end he isn’t so sure what he really wants I don’t think, I know he’s the right one for me but some how he’s not opening up to me he keeps me completely confused and shut out, I know I’m probably not making much sense here or for anyone not myself, I’ve basically done nothing but bent over backwards to every thing he’s wanted, so basically I’m the fool here I guess, it’s always about him his needs but when it comes to me he dissapear ‘s, for a few days and also I feel so much stress and depressed I don’t some what know if I’m coming or going half of the time, yes I’ve sent money to him numbers of times. I don’t know if it’s he’s using me or I don’t know I’m so emotionally I’m sorry please forgive me

[Sandy G]

I don’t understand how he could just walk away like it’s nothing I’m supposing he never felt anything in the beginning, I’ve been hurt once in my life by my children ‘s father I promised myself I’d never let my guard down but unfortunately I did and never saw it coming, I’m assuming some men rather have a one night stand with who ever instead of having a true and faithful woman, I’ve never been with but one man THAT was with my children ‘s dad and after him cheating I promised I’d stay single for the rest of my life, love comes so easily but hell to get out of, but why do some play and take what some of us good women for granted I’ll never understand what the meaning is, no we never met I met this guy off internet but some meet their true love off internet and live happily ever after, I just wish I knew what he was thinking when he came into my life, I just wish there were something I could do or say,

[Sandy G]

I’m sorry ma’am jus got out of the hospital, I’m sorry I haven’t been able to get own here lately due to prenewmonia, and yes he’s told me to leave him alone, and I have no idea how or what to do to make him change his mind, we’ve been talking about two years now, he’s never been married, he claims he’s giving himself to many women but it’s not done anything good for him, but I’m not all women as I’ve told him, which still doesn’t do much any good I’m definitely in love with this man, I just don’t know what else to do or say,

[Sandy G]

Hi wendy this is Sandy G. I just saw your message hon, trust me never give up why should you I mean here I am in the same situation as you and I definitely feel your pain and heartache,and I’m no coach what so ever. I’m new here myself but I can relate to some of your story,the man I’ve been talking with going own two years now. He promised me the world and all of a sudden turned his back own me, I don’t know what else I could say to get through to him were in the same situation sweetie, I’m like you own this statement I’d definitely love to know what it would take to get him back,no other man has ever said the sweet words he has said to me, but hold your self together sweetheart and don’t give up you love him and you won’t to make him see I say do what you feel is right were all human here, and I wish you all the best I just wish I could do for myself as I can talk with others about the right things but for myself I get to emotionally

[Sandy G]

Oh hon I know just were you are with this situation, your ‘s is exactly like what I’m n, except we haven’t even met yet every time I asked him to let’s do a video chat, he up and goes completely off line, then once he’s back he constantly starts with me,I don’t even understand why mine has turned so cold towards me even though I’ve done nearly everything I knew how to please him, don’t get me wrong I don’t know what made me fall in love with him own line, in the first place which I’ve tried my best to walk away but I can’t, I’m truly sorry that your having to go through this kind of situation but you’re not alone sweetheart, I’m in the same situation,

[Sandy G]

I have nearly done all I know how to going about this situation with him but I don’t think it’s doing much good, I don’t know rather to give up and walk away from this, but it’s killing me inside out because I honestly fell in love with this man the sweet and inspiring words he’d use when we first started talking never had I ever had anyone to say such beautiful things to me. He captured my heart without me even knowing what had happened to me because at tht point I wasn’t looking for anyone this has really taken a role own me ,or maybe it’s not meant to be for me to find true love,

[Sandy G]

He tells me constantly how much I mean to him, but when he needs something I can’t even take care of myself half of the time mustless a grown man, I do love him he has told me numerous of times he loves me and he was coming for me soon after all the pandemic was over, I just don’t know what else to say to make him understand THAT I truly love him

[Sandy G]

Jesus I don’t know what to do or how to send it, I’ve replied twice already but unfortunately ther not going through but I’m 50 and he is 49 he lives in Barcelona Spain and I live in Douglas Georgia coffee county, we’ve been chatting going own two years, we’ve not met yet and yes he knows how I feel about him and I thought I knew how he felt about me, but obviously when I mentioned something to him or something he makes out as he is busy he will get back with me after he is done with his work, but I don’t understand why he want contact me instead of just reading my message ‘s but not responding he completely ignore ‘s me because I no longer can bend over backwards to do as he wants

[Sandy G]

How can I get a man to fall in love with me, how can I trigger his hero instinct, I’ve been talking with him going own two years, but he seems so distance and always to busy for me,

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