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I haven’t heard from him yet. But I have kept myself busy with other things. I wish there was anyway I could actually make him be with me but I dont think there is anyway to get him be with me be my bf. I love him and I think it’s just gonna be one way. I mean its fine. Nobody has any solution to this situation. Learning to adjust to it
Well, yes it was more of friends with a benefit situation. It went on for a good 4 months. Although I was expecting much out of him at all. He always used to land up giving me surprise visits, bring along dinner just to have with me. He always turned towards me when he felt low. I wasn’t quite putting in too many efforts. Just to make him happy and see him smile, I used to cook for him. We would spend so much time together that all our friends thought we were a couple, which we were not. He used to always come around even after hectic days to meet me. There were times he used to go clubbing but instead of going home, he used to come to be with me. He was quite stressed out a week before his birthday and I surprised him with a party. He seemed to be very happy. He just couldn’t stop smiling that night. All he would keep doing is a hug and tell me that I made his special. Everything was going so well, and I only started liking him after being with him for 4 months. But he suddenly just stopped seeing me or texting me. I couldn’t figure out at all as to why he was behaving that way. The last I saw him was a few days back during a party at my place, he seemed to ignore me the entire time.
I did try texting him once in between when he wasn’t meeting me. All he said was he had a lot of work.
Well, I’m 22 and he is 24. Initially, he said he wasn’t looking for anything serious, but the number of efforts he started putting in didn’t seem like he only wanted it to be a sexual relationship.
He has done a lot for me and I have always appreciated him being around me. I have also ensured that I’m there with him when he needs my support. Its been 3 weeks since i have spoken with him. This sudden thing of pulling away is making no sense to me.
