We met through dating site on 2016,then got to know each other since then. He was fine when we first talked until we met in 2017. He was able to adjust his work and our stage in relationship. There are trials but we manage it. When we met we just easily clicked like we feel we are connected,I understands where he is coming from his behavior. We did not actually live together because we sleep in separate rooms,we are just living in one house,doing things together. He was really fine way then,I like him even if we are apart from each other for 3 years. But, when we get back to talking terms so suddenly changed. How can I use the His secret obsession book on him?