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  • in reply to: How to get him to focus on me #26757
    Leslie F
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    *update Yesterday I called him even though everyone told me not to. I mentioned in a non nagging way, I noticed he doesn’t text or call like he used to, and he said he will make sure he does. He did call me when he got home from work and talked for a lil. This is what he does ups and downs, acts like he’s in it and pulls back. I do know he has a lot he is dealing with right now as well so not sure if it’s cold feet or what. Our chemistry Is undeniably very strong, he has even said so we are very attracted to ea other.

    in reply to: How to get him to focus on me #26722
    Leslie F
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    Hi Kanya
    I broke down because a lot of things have been building up. First being not passing my nursing boards, second New health concerns and three friends letting me down and finally fourth was him, starting to become inconsistent and pulling back. He said it was ok and understood but after that he said me being emotional didn’t help with what he was going through not sure about wanting to date. Again he pursued me. As of yesterday he called few times expressed wanting to see me and again how he likes me and how we have a lot of chemistry. He again said he is not dating or seeing anyone but does run in how a lot of women find him attractive and not like the “normal” man who’s always trying to talk to women. I’m also starting to feel like a booty call. He calls says he misses me wants to see me, we get together have a good conversation talk about us and doing things, We hook up we part ways and I don’t hear from him for the rest of the day. Normally he would have called to talk, check on me say how he enjoyed seeing me, text me through out the day. Now it’s nothing until the next time he wants to see me I assume. He again says how busy he is but tells me he was hanging out with his friend or talking to a friend on the phone (supposedly male friends) in my head I feel wow no time for me but time for that. I have not said that because the whole situation right now is rocky.

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