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Yes, there is a part of me wanting him to feel more confident about me liking him. No set plans for our next get together.
We’ve seen each other face to face due to him coming into my job. I knew his address due to he told me. What happened was he used to come into my place of business to pay a bill. I was attracted to him but never said anything due to I didn’t want any one at my job knowing I had a crush on him or was interested in him. He was going through a very long divorce process and me being the Paralegal and super sleuth I am I looked up the Court records and read the file. Also at times he and the ex-had to bring in paperwork to get the account either put into their name or it taken off.
After divorce was actually final (it had been going on for 4 years), but I had only had an interest in him for the past year. In October of 2019 I finally decided to approach him but I did it through sending a card anonymously asking was he involved with someone and the if not he had a secret admirer and gave my number. Once he received the card, he called and asked how I got the address (when he finaled out account had to give a forwarding address) and I told him he told me that was his sisters address and he didn’t live there but did not want the ex to know and so kids could finish school in that district. After convincing him it wasn’t a joke, his sister playing a trick, or somebody trying to set him up I told him who I was. He said one time when he was in there when he left he felt like I had been checking him out but kinda shook it off. We talked for almost 2 hours and he kept asking since I knew his situation why him and I told him then. We talked on occasion and whenever we did it was always for hours. We talked about the kids, his and mine, likes of music… I started sending encouragement cards whenever I saw he had to go back to court for BS Motions ex was filing. I saw a Boxing Tape of oldies and got it and had a friend of mine deliver it to him like a Secret Santa and for his birthday left a card and bottle of his favorite liquor on his door step when he wasn’t home.
He is always very grateful and we’ve made a joke of it because I always only sign my first initial and he will call and say I got this great card or gift from somebody. We were at the point of going to just meet and hang out but then “stay in place.”
The first time we atuall hung was last weekend and we listened to music, talked, danced, shared a few kisses until almost 5 in the morning!! Towards the end though we were talking about his childhood which was a little sad and then once again started asking why him and I told him, the way he handles business, takes care of his children, and just the sound of his voice. I could always tell when he came in to building just by hearing him speak and not looking up from desk.
I always give compliments that are from the heart but now that we have actually spent face to face tome together I have more like, he has strong but gentle hands, any man can be a father but it takes a special man to be a Dad…”
The one in person time we’ve had was great, the conversation flowed easily and effortlessly ( he even commented on it), I feel he’s attracted, and yes I would be comfortable saying something like that because it’s true.
