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Ooo I forgot to mention before we started dating we would FaceTime each other a lot. And in December he came down to visit me and his family. His family and I live in the same city! He stayed for a whole month. My mind was thinking since we had an instant connection he might be the one! And well maybe I don’t know him that well so I guess I’ll just let it be. If he wants to be part of my life then great and if not it’s fine. I need to find myself cause that for sure wasn’t me. I was never the type of clingy needy girlfriend cause this isn’t the first time being in a long distance relationship but it is for him. It just was so challenging cause of what his job is I guess! But I really appreciate the advice you have given to me. I’ll for sure try to enjoy my life more and not focus on wanting to get married!
I don’t want to be friends but I’ll be his friend and hopefully we can work things out in the future! No I live in Colorado and he’s in Florida. I made a list of good and bad outcomes if I stay with him! And there’s more good than bad! I want to get back together! But I don’t want to push it! I’m willing to give him time. Text him every once in awhile and see if he still cares enough about me! I want him for the long wrong!
Well before he was on deployment we would talk for hours on end! But that was because he had a lot of time to spare! He would work for like 5 to 6 hours every other day as part time! Now that he’s back he’s working a lot more last time it was almost 14 hours and the next day he’s off! And on his day off there would be a bit more communication! But not a lot! He would sometimes FaceTime me when he would play his video games and now he wouldn’t cause he would wanna focus on winning. And now he got a nice car so he’s driving a bit more and back then he didn’t! So basically his job is taking a lot from him as time and energy! And now that I had time to think things through! I definitely see that he’s exhausted and maybe what he needs is time to adjust! I used to think that we would go back to how things were. And idk if you know much about how they rank in the Navy but he’s now consider a OSSR! And we made a deal to not accept other people or talk to anyone! And I noticed that he’s been adding a lot of other girls. And well I broke up with him. I sent him a long text of the moment that made me happy and love! And I mention how my family still love and support us especially right now. And that hopefully we can fix things! And he answered admitting that he did accept some girls but he’s not talking to anyone! He’s focusing on himself right now. And he hates the fact that it had to end this way. And him losing feelings towards me cause everything was too much for him but we can still talk to each other! Since I was someone that important in his life! And just really sorry things had to end this way. I texted him today in the morning saying Good morning! Hope you have a great day today! Know that I’m still here for you! He answered later on saying thank you and same here. I guess from my understanding he just needs support and I need to find myself again! Cause with the whole pandemic and him being on deployment really messed up my mentality and emotions a lot!
