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He’s 25 and I’m 31. His friends are my friends and they are great. I don’t think there’s someone else. I did ask him but he said no. I just don’t know what to do bc we are still living together but living separate lives and it’s killing me . I thought maybe he had a reality check and it scared him, but I’m not sure. I’m trying to engage with him and it’s not working. I’m trying the bridging phrases and I’m not getting much. We have good days where he talks to me a little bit and we have our bad days where he completely ignores me.
We’ve known each other for a while but started just a sexual relationship last December. Our feelings grew and we decided to take it to the next level. I ended up getting pregnant and things were great. He’s an amazing boyfriend. But last weekend he all of sudden said he second guessed our relationship and said it was just sex and that we have no foundation, which is his reasoning for not wanting to go to therapy. He said he can’t help how he feels. I just don’t get it. He’s always said that he didn’t want a split family like he had . That we’d work through it and now he switch and doesn’t want to. He won’t talk to me and we live in the same house . We are like roommates and he sleeps on the couch. He does have a role model. He likes to fish and likes Jacob Wheeler.
