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Heidi,NONE of the guys are currently married, I’m NOT like that 🙂 The one that was married for 9 years said he and his ex who is NOW married to her now husband said they have it all figured out. I’m not soo sure never met him yet. Then the other guys I’ve been chatting with have drama fighting for custody and having the wife hang the amount of time for the dad to spend with his children is threatened. I just don’t think I want to deal with this. Is this normal for guys with kids always? I wouldn’t be able to discipline and time to spend he and I alone would always mean the children would come first. OR if the wife his ex would be sick he’d have the child. Would I feel resentment eventually but I love children hope to have some of my own. Any ideas, suggestions because maybe GUYS W KIDS ARE ALL THAT’S left out there? I’m older in 2 days 43 (feeling down on this too because still single never been married) so this could be true. Please help, any experience with this w clients? single alone and turning another year older next week 🙁 Words of wisdom?
THANKS for your help.Heidi, Yes, looking for something long term. Eharmony I did try but it always only gave me guys out of my state. Yes I changed the location but sadly none in my area….not too many guys lol left.
So any other apps besides bumble, tinder or hinge? OR do you know of any matchmakers but NOT wanting to spend thousands of dollars either. THANKSHi Heidi, being NEW on here, hope I can respond to you, this way?
I actually had a GREAT childhood, NO issues really and parents are still married 47 years to this day. I’m NOT sure besides possibly being too naive and people say I’m “too” nice that I ALWAYS want to see the good in people. Perhaps this is why…I continue to want to see something that isn’t there. It’s been on again off again for almost 4 years. I didn’t think holding on was jeopardizing my chances but perhaps NOT closing this door is keeping me from opening a new one?? Thoughts? I mean I guess my ? is do I Send a closure text let him know I’m moving on? Or thanks for what he brought into my life but have to cut ties because I can’t start fresh still communicating with him? Something like that?? Help please! I appreciate your advice, I DO deserve to be treated better and have someone want to INVEST time in me:) You’re right, so help me should I or shouldn’t I text for closure, and what would you recommend? THANKS for your time!
