Forum Replies Created
-
AuthorPosts
-
JeanParticipant
Hi
When he said on wednsday I will be back it was 10pm my time 5pm his time. I waited up till 3am and nothing so went to bed. Got a pm at 8am in morning saying sleep well I love you. He would have been going to bed at that time maybe which was 3am his time. I was sleeping as I had no work that day. Its Thursday at this point. He pmed me again at 7.30pm my time saying he was busy and would be in and out of messenger. I was too but didn’t send pm at all to him. At 9.30om he wrote OK then. At 10.45pm I wrote him telling him I was very very busy that day and didn’t get up till late that day. At 12.30am I got a curt I’m going to bed. I said sleep well and sent a meme saying I love you too and that I would be up most of the night if he wanted to catch up.at 2.45am he wrote you ignered me all day I’m not happy. I reiterated that I was crazy busy and apologised for not checking in. He went on and on so I said I always understand when he’s busy. He said reason he came back from camping was me and I ignored him and some other complaints too not about me though so he says it’s futile and he’s gonna go back to camper. I apologised for not checking in and said let’s not make a big issue outta this. I defused it and we spoke till 6am at that time I had to get ready for work and he said he was going to bed. Now you know why I haven’t said anything yet. These times I’m putting here are my time zone BTW. When I got on train I said sleep well.its Friday morning now. At 6.30pm he pmed me as he just woke up. I just hearted him. At 7.30 he said he had some work to do and we can talk later. O at 7.30pm I told him I was going for a nap and at 8pm he said sleep well. That is when he said he had work and talk later. Well I slept a little and got nothing from him until I said goodnight at 3am this morning. At 3.45am a pm saying I love you.. Xxx. I was sleeping. Another one at 11.45am saying good morning beautiful. I’m still sleeping. So I said when I woke up at 2pm shame on me and said sleep well.. Xxx.. So that’s story so far.. He came online half hour ago but hasn’t read that last msge yet or pmed me. He’s prob gone back asleep.
JeanJeanParticipantHi Heidi
I get what your saying but I think it’s only common courtesy to let a loved one know when their leaving especially when they are going to be off grid incommunicado. After all he had time to post silly stuff on fb etc. Where’s the priority there. Anyway I didn’t say anything yet as we have hardly spoke but let me get back to you later about what has been said since he’s come back
JeanJeanParticipantHi Heidi lovely to meet you. That sounds wonderful. Great way to put it. I would not have put it as well as that and an argument prob would have ensued. We have had a few believe me. I will use those exact words thank you
I do not know if it will be today though but it will happen and I will post you back with details of how it goes.
Jean. -
AuthorPosts