[Jean]

Hi yes communication is better but nothing like it was in the initial months but hopefully it will keep improving. Your president has banned all Europeans entering the USA so as soon as that is lifted I will go.
Thanks
Jean

[Jean]

Hi it makes great sense thank you. As it turned out those people didn’t turn up at his camper. It was only him and his friend were there. He was back by Sunday. Communication is OK at the moment.
Jean.

[Jean]

Hi Kanya yes we seem to be back communication again as yesterday we chatted for a few hours. He was going to his sisters birthday celebration last night so we didn’t chat last night but he told me he was going back to camper today to finish work as his mower broke and he had to fix it and cut grass. What is concerning me is that it’s supposed to be a guy weekend as 2 of his friends are going too but then he heard one of his friends was bringing his girlfriend and possibly his girlfriends friend. Other guy is not coming till Sunday. He said no I’m not going to cheat on you and I told him I trusted him. But I am a little apprehensive secretly. When partying thing can get weird.. Am I silly? He did say goodbye before he went and told me he loved me.
Jean

[Jean]

Hi i planned going in July just for a 3 week holiday but your president will not let me. Its OK I can go later. But I work so next year I can go for longer.
Jean

[Jean]

Hi. I would go to usa to live is what has been discussed but I need to visit him first and see if we gell in person.
Jean

[Jean]

Hi yes we did. He actually said he wants to marry me. He and I will work out a plan for tmoving to same space. He got back a couple of hours ago and pmed me. He talked for a little bit. Hopefully he will get back to me later on as he seems to be gone.
Jean

[Jean]

Hi. Well he didn’t contact me on Sunday at all. Monday he did sayin he had a friend die on him on Sunday and he was busy. Understandable. He told me Monday he was at a loss for words about the death so not much convo that day but Monday night he told me he was going to camper on Tuesday and bringing his mum along and said he would contact me before he left and he did. So he’s away now. I’ll see how it goes when he gets back for a phone call.
Thanks Heidi
Jean.

[Jean]

Hi. Yes we talk on phone at least once a week. Last night I pmed him asking was he OK. This morning he was online in messenger twice and said nothing to me. So at least I know he’s OK.. I think.. But I am leaving ball in his court now. I have done enough. O and when you said he might be better after sleeping that was night before last.
Jean

[Jean]

Hi Heidi
I got a reply and for the life of me it makes no sense. He said
Sorry, I had to go to seven stores, I’m beat….I couldn’t check in, no mobile data….
I just said OK sleep well cuz I wasn’t getting into it when he was tired. We said goodnight and told each we loved each other and that’s the last I’ve heard from him. In messenger it doesn’t say last time he was on so he is either out of range at camper or phone out of order or he has his active status hidden. So who knows. I don’t for sure..
Jean

[Jean]

Hi Heidi. Well I did it. I said exactly what you suggested. He has been in and out a lot on messenger and all I got was those three hearts so he is gone now since 50 mins ago and I sent that message just now
He will get it when he comes back on I guess. Hope he doesn’t make an argument out of it fingers crossed
Will let you know what happens.
Jean

[Jean]

O meant to say that I didn’t really get the opportunity to have that conversation yet as he was annoyed last time we had a real chat etc so I will seize the opportunity as soon as I can.
Jean.

[Jean]

Hi yes you are right and I will do that. I will think about exactly how it made me feel and see if I can find the trigger. Funny story. I put a post on fb a few hrs ago and a guy friend wrote a comment which said. That’s lovely Jean. Will you marry me.. Lol. My bf wrote in response to that. I am spoiled and no you may not. Guy was only kidding. Anyway thanks Heidi your great and when I have the conversation I will let you know how it goes.
Jean.x

[Jean]

Hi well that was uneventful. He sent 3 hearts is all and was on for like 45 mins during which time I sent him a thank you and hoping he is having a great day.. Not read.. He is gone again.
Jean

[Jean]

Hi it does make sense but I don’t recall not being prioritised in the past or in my childhood but I will give it some thought Having said that I still think it was out of order considering Ige was gonna be unreachable. Told you earlier that I sent him 2 pms today. He read 1 and other is unread. He has not been on for 5 hours so hope he is OK. Will keep you posted. O a pm just came in from him will get back to you later
Jean

[Jean]

Hi just want to clarify 2 things. On wednsday when he came back it was 4.30pm my time and he didn’t contact me again till 10om and then he was going for nap so that was Wednesdays communication as he didn’t come back to me. Now Thursday night when he was annoyed we did chat but it might look like it was for a long time but it was sketchy as his replies were a good time a coming but eventually we did chat from 4.30am till 6am so I suppose OK. Now today he has been online and has read my text but he hasn’t said anything and I don’t think he went back to sleep as he was in and out. I sent him a nice lovey meme at 7pm but still silence. I’m trying here. He can’t say I’m ignoring now at least.. Men
Jean

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