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In response I told him I would like to talk to him via phone. I told him I should have asked him if he needed some space when we talked a few weeks ago instead of asking him if he wanted to be in a relationship. He didn’t really respond. When I asked him again if he could tell me the reason for the breakup, he still didn’t answer. He did say that Lord has the right person for both of us, and he said he loves me, and he wishes me well. When I said He loves me I said if you loved me you would be more open with me. He cut me off as if to say, I just told you I love you. I honestly thinks he meant he loves me as a friend. He also said under his breath, “you have been married for 20 years, right?” My “soon to be ex” husband and I have been separated since May 18, 2017. We are working with a mediator right now. I ended the call by saying “goodbye”, but I didn’t hang up. He stayed I the phone a few seconds later and then hung up. All this happened last night.
This is what he just texted in response (please note: he is good at texting, so I don’t think he meant to use upper case letters when he responded: “G.m no IAM not up there. Just say what you feel
I can read your text”Well, I moved too fast!!! This is what I texted him about three hours ago and I have not yet received a response: “GM. I pray you are and your family are doing well and are safe and healthy. There is something I need to say to you that I have not said before. Are you passing by this exit this week? If so, I was wondering if you would find it in your heart to meet me in person. I will have my mask on and will keep a safe distance. What I have to say won’t take long.”
I have no idea why we broke up. Up until the first week or so in April, he was supportive and loving. We live about 90 miles from each. Due to the distance and us working during the week and sometimes on Saturday, we only would see each other twice a month. Due to the pandemic, we had seen each other since Valentines Day. Before we broke up he would call me at least twice a day and text me at least once a day. He is not really the open type, if you know what I mean? I have texted him and he has texted me, but just short answers. The only time he initiated a text was on Mother’s Day, when he wished me a Happy Mother’s Day. I want to reach out to him, but I don’t want to drive him totally away.
