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Kenya, do you mean just as far as a little touch, or back rub? If that’s what you mean, he welcomes it. If he’s walking by me and i reach out to touch him he will always stop and let it happen, and usually offers me a touch back. If you mean as far as me initiating sex, he doesn’t seem to mind it at all….the kissing just isn’t there usually….UNLESS he is drunk. He seems to be way more physically intimate when he’s drinking. I would assume most men are…..but he will kiss me alot more and just make out for fun occasionally if he is drunk….but not sober.
As far as him initiating little touches, he does every now and then. If we’re watching tv he will put a hand on my leg or something. Will occasionally spank me when he is being playful. Eill occasionally rub my feet,, and one 5ime during covid he offered to paint my hands and toes for me, so i thought that was nice…..But usually to initiate sex he will just take my hand and put it on his lap, so i can tell he’s horny.nlt really sure what to make of that
Thank you Heidi and Kanya. I havbt brought anything up and we have been having a good time together, but sometimes like I said i question weather he has real feelings for me or if im just good company and help pass the time.
I am accepting of him as he is, and I dont need for a man to constantly tell me his feelings or anything, but I do feel a little insecure not having any idea. I would just like to hear once if he has feelings for me or not.
I guess 6 months can be too soon for some people, ive just never dated someone this long without hearing “i love you” or atleast something similar.
I will be relocating closer to his area next month. I was thinking maybe I should shelve my feelings for 2 or 3 months and see what happens when I’m living closer. Maybe when we have the option to see each other during the week, maybe ill see if he seems to want to spend more time with me, and maybe that will give him some more time to decide on feelings. I just dont want to talk about it too soon and push him away because he feels like I’m pressuring him, but at the same time we are getting close to 8 months together, and if we’re getting close to a year together and I still havnt been told he loves me, I just don’t want to completely fall for someone that just keeps me around for convenience, you know?
My other concern (which is tunrelated but probably contributes to my feeling insecure about how he feels) is in the beginning of our relationship, he use to be more physically affectionate. He would kiss me alot more randomly, or we would make out just for fun, and he was more touchy feely. Now, he kinda only kisses me during sex, and thays only sometimes….alot of times we have sex and he doesn’t kiss me at all, and if he does, it’s not long and sensual like it use to be. It kinda makes me feel like he sees it as a chore now? Is that normal??
