Good points I don’t understand as this started off just as sex and everytime I get close he literally stops contact this all started again 8 weeks ago when he made contact it’s always him that starts it up again out of the blue we hadn’t been in contact for three months prior to this it’s like he get scared every time we get close this time round he at least hasn’t run yet he now has we buying him a pet at his request cause he wants to feel loved. I can live with out the sex but not the connection we seem to have but what will happen we will get drunk and the sex will happen again he suffers with depression on and off as well so I don’t know if things will change what I can’t work out is if he cares for me as more than a friend as he said he adores me both sexually and emotional but can only do friends or is it just friends and not the care just the ability to be more
Does that make sense