[Sandra M]

Thanks, Kanya. Im back on match too. Had a difficult weekend, of course.

[Sandra M]

Well, Kanya, I just found he went back on Match.com. here’s my text conversation with him:
Me: Hey, I’ll need my clothes back
Me: You can just mail them to me…you have my address.
Him: I can do that. What have you been up to?
Me: Do you really care to know?
(before he responds, I noticed he read my same message on his match profile. His first response he had not yet realized I knew he was back on match.com)
Him: I wouldn’t have asked
Me: I’m not convinced. But if you care to try, maybe you should call me since you’re not a fan of endless texting

I wrote that because he now has on his profile that he does not prefer endless texting. Which is ironic, since that’s all he’s ever done with me.

I would be more than happy to give him a second chance, but he’s really going to have to work for it this time!

Any suggestions???

[Sandra M]

Thanks, Kanya. I don’t know what he is doing on M, T, and Th that he is so busy other than taking care of his 18 acres and chickens. I haven’t asked him as to not push it. I’ve been trying to think of how to attract his hero instinct. He gets up at 3:30 a.m. and is at work at 5 a.m. I don’t know what time his son leaves on Sundays either. I think after dinner. I don’t get the impression Sunday evenings he’s available either. So far, I texted him Tuesday morning and haven’t heard from him since. I’m not going to text him. I’ll let him be, hoping he comes back to me. I do plan to work the adventure conversation within a texting banter when the opportunity arises. I’ve also thought about the next time he sets a date, I’ll offer an alternative day as i will be busy that day.

He has commented that he wished there wasn’t 100+ miles between us. I am losing my job Sept. 30. I’ve thought about getting a job in his town and getting and apartment there to give us a better chance. I have applied for jobs there as of yesterday. Is this something you think i could broach with him to say, I’m willing to do this in order to give us a chance to at least see each other on a regular basis and see where it goes. ??? I do hesitate because I don’t want to appear to move too fast and driving the relationship.

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