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Ok, i understand, that if i do not give him time to understand how is it without me, i will never have his respect. Actually this makes me very sad, why i have to finish something that i want, more than i need. That s the point i want him, i dont need him. But i guess you are right i will have to do this. Even if at the beginning will hurt. I will not have sex with him anymore. And i will keep you posted on this. Is just the best thing to do.
Wow Heidi, first of all thank you for taking time to wrote such a long message. You are objective and i know what you said is pure truth, but at the moment i feel that if i give up on what i have with him, my life will go to a dark place. I am aware that my happiness does not depend on one person, but i will tell you my trigger: my mother died when i was 13 and my dad left me with my grandparents, in a man i search for that hug i needed when i was growing up, and this i can not offer to myself, i want to think about myself that i am not stupid, or i am disrespect-full to my own person, i am just a woman who s inner child needs a lot of attention. I was never attracted to guys who are cold, all my lovers were this kind of persons who gave me tender hugs, but unfortunately they all had one feature from dad, they always cheated and left me… i don t know if this makes any sense, but i repeat, i am not ready to let him out of my life, because i know that if i say stop, he will not come beg me to be his girlfriend after a period. I want to make this work, even if i will be stuck at second step of the program for a while. Yes maybe i am stubborn and i dont want to understand that this has worked in every occasion, but what i also know is that him is a man who has a inner boy who does not know to express emotions, and i want to show him with me he is safe, and i will not leave him just because he continues to make a mistake. I was abandoned and thrown out of the house by my grandparents because i made teenager mistakes, and i will not do this to a person i love. What am i asking you is if, there is a chance to make him discover how wonderful he is in my eyes, and for him to aim to be always a superhero in my eyes? God bless you!!
