[Andisheh H]

i was wondering if anyone can help – i have situation with a guy I meet around 6,7 weeks ago. we became very close and he has been very attentive and proactive in seeing me and texting. i had to go traveling in London and he had to go there too prior to me to see his son ( he is separated and will get divorced soon) when i was there last week i left voice mail to wish him happy birthday( i mentioned I thought i maybe I heard he said it was his bday), but he did not look at voicemail so I called 3 days later (he didnt reply) but then after 20 minutes text me appologized and said he has a lot going on in his life at the moment (giving me list etc with work) i replied said i felt dismissed he replied : sorry!! xxx / so i did not reply.Then when traveled back to Dubai where i am and he is right now- i said i have arrived- he he was very kind and sweet in his message, saying he i was not feeling too well and he has a client meeting that he will try to get out to see me and if we can play it by ear- i said ‘sure’ but u heard nothing and saturday I heard nothing – So Sunday i text said – ‘hope you are ok S’ He replied saying so sorry, he was could not get out of client meeting Friday and that he took client to this place that he should have taken me ….etc and Saturday his friend Dan bought him a ticket for concert for his birthday and had to go but went sraight home as soon as it finished as was not feeling well. He also said on Sunday if he feels better Sunday maybe we can have coffee. i wished him well and said was sorry he was feeling unwell etc rest and then said only if he is genunly feeling better can meet for coffee. he didnt rely and its thursday now- my question is should i text today or sunday after a week and say ; Hi S, HOPE YOU WEEK HAS BEEN A LITTLE SMOOTHER AND YOU’RE FEELING BETTER. JUST THOUGHT I’D CHECK IN AND SAY HELLO XX

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