[Heather C]

I guess my little girl is craving love… I have been sourcing myself for years… but am tired of that. I need companionship. I get what you’re saying and I have done most of that for years and years. so I guess I don’t know what is stopping me from being more discerning. I thought i was so I don’t know and wonder if i should just give up.

[Heather C]

thanks. I introduced myself in other part of forum.

[Heather C]

I think I am aware like you say and choose anyway… it is not always easy to say be discerning about who you choose. I was talking to a “nice, safe guy” but he also had red flags for me as even though he was empathetic and helpful, he would send long texts about how great is at work and I felt like he was always looking for validation and I want some stimulating conversation that is more back n forth… I seem to find the 2 extremes. I go for the more fun conversations likely because I need fun in my life. often am afraid of wasting 6 months on this guy or 8 months on that guy or even 3 months… this is what it has been for the past 10 years. after this length of time, i do struggle with seeing myself as the prize. I have lots to offer but its not seen from those i’m interested in. if that makes sense

[Heather C]

i couldn’t see the article with this link… 🙁

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