Dear Coach Spyce
Thank you for your reply. Yes I have received legal aid through the Australian Government so that really helps. But it is very hard having no emotional support during this time. My family all live overseas.
I do want my husband back. My question is based on me wondering if I am just having wishful thinking. I wanted some advice from relationship experts on whether this situation is insurmountable. I also have no idea on how to even begin to get him back. There is a possibility that his children will never “come to the party”. Would it be unrealistic thinking to think that he would eventually choose me even if they don’t want to come over. Communication is difficult. He only responds if it is something to do with finances, such as getting his car regitered onto his name and off my name. I have not sent any begging, blaming or hysterical messages.
I would like to give it a go if you feel it is not a completely hopeless situation based on your professional experience.