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Lauren,
I am so glad that he is re engaging! I def think that being able to get his opinion and asking his advice has made him more curious! That is so awesome!!! Im sending out nothing but positive vibes your way!!!Abby,
I truly wish you the best and will keep you in my thoughts. You are much stronger than you know 🙂 Take care of yourself love and keep us updated on your progress 🙂Lauren thats awesome!! And youre rainy day list is such a great idea! I may have to borrow it 😉 Please keep us updated on how things progress. Good luck girl!
Abby,
Im so sorry to see that you are still going through this with him. I agree with you, you have been more paient than most would be. I agree with Kanya re:”I’ve decided that it is time for me to move out. I’ll be leaving on (date) I’m sorry that it has come to this but since you won’t talk to me I needed to make some decisions only own. I wish you the best.” His abandonment issues are his own and at this point he has pretty much done the same to you. Your health is number one above all.Hey Lauren,
I think the starbucks card text is an awesome idea! I seems like he had alot hit him at once, between the roof and his car. Maybe he is just a little preoccupied with those issues. I totally think the starbucks would be a way to contact him without having to think of a reason for him to help you lol Let me know how that goes!
StephAbby,
What a horrible thing to have to go through. My advice was going to be to speak to him and let him know how youre feeling but it seems like you have tried to reach out. Are you guys still living together? Does he just stay at work and come home when youre not there? Im sorry to hear about your health. I will keep you in my thoughts 🙂I have noticed this as well! I try to smile at everyone I come in to contact with but sometimes I forget that I look so unhappy when not smiling hahaha It has made a difference and you never know who’s day you brighten with just a smile!
Gina,
I agree with Heidi. I have been in a similar situation as well. I was friends with a guy for almost 10 years, we hung out all the time and one day he just stopped answering my calls and I never saw him again. I found a=out a few years after he cut contact that he met someone in college, got married and was having a child. He said that he felt that our friendship would have hindered his relationship so he decided to cut contact. No matter the reason, it does hurt, but Heidi is right, its not you, its him!Fong,
Of course a some point you become mentally and emotionally exhausted. I feel like that is when I would lose hope. And it always feels worse before it feels better. But it will get better, because life always does 🙂 How have you been doing?Go for it girl!!!! You can always get a different massage therapist 😉 Maybe try asking him out for coffee first…see how things go 🙂
Genevieve,
I had a hysterectomy when I was 19. I have had issues with intimacy as well, but I spoke to my OBGYN and he helped get me on medication that has made a tremendous difference. I would suggest speaking to your doctor to see what options they can give you 🙂Liga,
Well I am not a coach in the slightest haha but I think I would seek someone who is not so confusing!!! If he makes you feel stressed, or sad or upset, I would let him go…but again thats just me 🙂 I have been in some really confusing relationships and Ive noticed that the longer you allow him to act this way the longer he will. You just have to decided what is best for YOU and what makes YOU happy! Does that make sense?Hi Liga,
I am so sorry to hear that he is giving you confusing signals. I always say that if you have questions, you will never know the answers unless you ask them. If it were me I would ask him if he see’s this going anywhere or if he is 100% on not dating a co worker. At least you would have a small insight to where his head is at.Jean,
What a beautiful letter. I hope that you guys are able to sit down and talk about this. Please let me know how things go.
