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Yes. You are right.
Thank you for your words of strength. I will take your advice to the heart and start over, as many times as it takes and if it’s fun, I’ll learn from it and if it hurts, I’ll learn from it.
Thank you, I wont give upHe is a wonderful man but with big commitment issues for sure. It is sad to remember how happy he made me and I felt he was too but because of what ever issues his past had him deal with he just does not want to even to try.
I am sad and I know time will heal. I will focus on personal growth and self care. Unfortunately this is not the first time this happens but I am afraid that it could happen again. I do not know how I will move forward in the love department, I guess time will tellThank you
I’m gonna focus on myself. Dating is hard and right now that doubles.
But I appreciate the advice.Not good, we dated for 6 months, still questioning if he knew he wasn’t ready then why ask me or anyone out,but trying to stay positive I guess those questions will never be completely answered
Hello
I just wanted to let you know the outcome of my conversation with him. I told him I had noticed a change in him and that he had started to call me his friend. I asked him if any thing had changed. He said he realized he wasnt ready for a relationship and broke up with me.Oh yes, that sounds good.
At the beginning of our relationship he said he wanted to make me smile and that I should tell him once he stops doing that. I told him the same thing, I said, ” you should also be honest with me when I stop making you smile, we should be honest with each other, specially because we come from a divorce”
I was also thinking of asking him that, if I have stopped making him smile.Sounds good, thank you.
I think I would just ask him
Hey, I noticed that you been a little off lately, is something wrong?He started about a week and a half ago. I asked for advice on a situation and kidding around I asked how much he would charge me for the session and he said ” for my friends, first session is free”
About two days ago he did it again, I told him I had a really ugly night and was about to call him but it was too late and he said ” all my friends know that they can call me any time”When we started seen each other we did not put a title in the relationship, but I was clear that I wanted to be exclusive even if we did not have a title. He has introduce me to friends, talk to his daughter about me, it seemed like we were heading the right direction. Until about a week and a half.
I know his work is stress full and his brothers one year anniversary was a few days ago and I am afraid that this might be the wrong time to ask him.
We were getting very close, he introduce me to friends and even mention that he talk to his daughter about me. But for the past week he has been distant, he use to call me or text me every day, and event-ought he replies to all my messages within the same day, I have to be the one initiating it. And to now hear him say I am his friend every time he gets a chance is really confusing to the point of when we are together I dont know if to hug him, kiss him, I hesitate but when I do he does reciprocate. What can I do?
