I’m not sure if I am replying in the right box?  I want to thank the person above for your reply; much appreciated! 🙂  I’ve had to let him go as it got worse earlier……He refuses to speak with me over the phone and finally sent a message telling me he has problems at the moment to deal with & needs space….?!!!!!  COMPLETELY WEIRD BEHAVIOUR.  Told him it’s not all about him / good luck with it all / He was trying to get too serious too soon (always a red flag I feel) and told him his disrespect was not ok.  In a nutshell, it was a message of get lost!  Thank you for your time……blessings to you, Karen 🙂