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We are still dating, Michele, and the past couple days he’s been acting normal with me. Hasn’t brought it up again, and I honestly don’t think he will. The whole thing just baffled me. He’s been weird since his sons been here. Like depressed. And he’s been out of work, too, which has been depressing him and making him feel worthless I’m pretty sure. He just hasn’t been himself. I’m hoping that once his son leaves and he starts his new job next week, he’ll go back to his normal self and maybe then we can talk about what happened here.
Cheryl, I agree with you that he shouldn’t have treated me like that. But it was only for one phone conversation, and then neither of us mentioned it since. I should say that I worry profusely and have severe dating anxiety, so the way I recount events may be… warped.
This “respect” thing is so hard for me coz I feel like it means I have to put my own needs on the back burner…
That seems like he’s being a little ridiculous to me. I had a guy try to tell me that once, and yeah. It was a problem that never got resolved because there were too many other problems between us. But I can tell you I never would have agreed to stop wearing tanks. I love them. In my opinion he’s gonna have to get over it somehow. Women aren’t property to be owned and controlled anymore. We have a right to our own bodies and what we put on them. If you were dressing slutty, I would say to cover up more. But you don’t sound like you’re doing that
No you’re not. I know this happened awhile ago, and who knows where u guys are at in the relationship now.
But you deserve to be considered. He should not have stayed at her house. Forget about ASKING you if he could, he shouldn’t even assume you would be OK with that at all. No one would.
I just feel like men and women are so different, it seems like it’s almost impossible anymore to make anything work.
So maybe you shouldn’t listen to me.I think if you want to keep giving him chances, then do it. If you’re tired and worn out by the relationship, then maybe it’s time to let it go.
